Stop Masturbating Now!

by admin on April 13, 2011

Do you want to stop masturbating? If so, you’re not alone. There are a lot of people who have realized that masturbation just isn’t a healthy or useful way to spend one’s time and so they have decided to stop masturbating. Unfortunately, actually stopping is a lot easier said than done. Many people have found that they inadvertently became addicted to masturbating and just couldn’t stop without some outside help.

Don’t make the mistake of believing that you can conquer a masturbation addiction on your own terms. It’s a lot harder than just saying, “No.” Masturbation is especially difficult to stop because it’s just so easy. Addictions to things like drugs or gambling require a person to spend money and go outside of the house to sate the addiction. Masturbation, on the other hand, is just as simple as lying down in bed or sitting on the couch and going for it. You can sneak off to the bathroom, masturbate for five minutes and then go on with your day – it’s just that easy.

So what can you do if you want to stop masturbating? The situation is far from hopeless, so don’t panic! Overcoming a problem with masturbation can be done so long as you have three things. You need willpower. You need a plan. And lastly, you need some outside support.

The willpower is simultaneously the easiest and the hardest thing to get. Either you have it, or you don’t. It’s all about thinking positively and trying your hardest to stick to your goals. Similarly, it’s about not giving up when you slip up. If you resolve to stop masturbating but can only go for a couple of weeks or even a couple of days, you can’t let that stop you. You’ve gotta get back on the wagon and keep trying!

When it comes to having a plan, it’s best to rely on the wisdom of those who have already succeeded at what you’re trying to do. For example, the Healthy Sexuality System is a system devised by men who overcame pornography addiction. While the exact circumstances of your addiction may be different, you can almost definitely benefit from the wisdom of another former addict. Don’t be so prideful and assume that you know how to deal with this serious issue without help.

One great thing about the Healthy Sexuality System is that it also covers the third thing you need at the same time: it provides you with a support network. This takes the form of the Mbuddy system. An Mbuddy is much like a sponsor found in other addiction recovery programs. It’s a person that helps you by providing advice and listening to your problems and struggles. You may be surprised to learn just how important this is to have when you want to stop masturbating. Your Mbuddy can provide the edge that you need to break the cycle and return to living a normal, addiction-free life.

 

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